You are not a cheater, don't be afraid of cheating.
Respect should be commanded not to be demanded.
Knowing the other person is almost impossible. You just can have an opinion (subject to change) based on the experience with that individual, that's it.
While drinking the milk, cat closes her eys and thinks no one is watching her.
Be a fool, If you want to be.You can say I hate it, you can never say it's fake.
Nothing will be solved in a satisfactory manner for all parties.
'Gahna Karmano Gati'. (Deeds are intricate)